Lucy

I lost my little girl tonight. She had a great life, though. I think she was 19.

Comments

[Nika1]

Dave - I am so sorry about Lucy. I know you miss her very much. I still miss Nika, my Huskie, age 17 and Sydney my Aussie age 13. As you know i do have Ali-Rose now that I love equally as much. Our animals are like family and you get so use to having them around. I will be thinking about you.
How about them gators!

[I know how you feel about your pets, Nika1, and Ali-Rose is a very lucky girl to have you as her servant. Our pets are one of a kind, with distinct personalities. Lucy certainly was a prime example. On her deathbed, I still couldn't get a piece of deli ham, roast beef or turkey past her. When I walked within 20 feet of her with meat in hand, her nose wiggled like a rabbit's. No way was she going to be deprived! In the end, that's all I fed her. In the end, I did everything possible to make her final days as comfortable and reassuring as possible. Thank you for your words of kindness. GO GATORS!]

[charlee]

I know it hurts, Tom picked up a stray at Taco Bell, I was mad since we already have 2 cats and 2 dogs but she has settled in good and she deserved a 2nd chance.

The pounds are so overfilled please go get another one they are killing them by the hundreds every day. We kept the Taco Bell kitty for that reason alone.

[Thanks, charlee. Yeah, it hurts, but I did everything possible to make her happy, and I think that sustained her for the past 6 weeks. She didn't want to go.

I'm glad Tom picked up your stray cat at Taco Bell. With all that traffic, she was one lucky girl, and you are lucky to have her. That's a happy ending!]

[Eyeball]

What a sweatheart!
Her eyes fill with Love for you, Dave!
So very sorry you hav this loss of your little girl!

[Thank you, Eyeball. Lucy loved to look up at me and stare, especially when I called her name. She loved attention, and I gave it to her. She also knew exactly where I'd be in the house when the Jeopardy song came on. Right on the couch, and she'd be waiting.]

[Marsha from NY]

So sorry for your loss my friend, My thoughts are with you
Marsha

[Thank you, Marsha. I wanted to come north this fall, but I had to take care of her. Now, I may just do that. Hard to believe it's almost been a year. When I do, I'll let you know...]

[nan11]

What heartbreaking news, Dave.

My own babies are getting old, and I can hardly bear the thought.

Hang in there!

(((H)))

[Thank you for the hug, nan11, I need it. Despite having over 6 weeks to adjust to her impending death, it's still very difficult when it finally happens. I did bury her in my backyard, just outside my bedroom window, but I sure do miss the girl.]

[Xena]

Oh Dave. My heart aches for you. I've had pets for about 30 yrs who went to the Rainbow Bridge. I know at times like this that words do not suffice. Thus, I leave you with your own words --- Lucy had a great life and I will add, she had a great life because of you.

[Yes, Lucy did have a great life, and she was happy right up to the end. She continued to purr until her final day, and I knew it was going to come soon. She was a bit uncomfortable on Sunday, but not in any real pain. She knew I was there, and I held her. Thank you, Xena. I'll be looking for Lucy one day, and she'll be there.]

[SnoopySleuth]

Dave~~find comfort in knowing that Lucy was one lucky cat to have found a home with you in return for her unconditional love for you.

BEYOND THE RAINBOW
As much as I loved the life we had and all the times we played,
I was so very tired and knew my time on earth would fade

I saw a wondrous image then of a place that's trouble-free
Where all of us can meet again to spend eternity.

I saw the most beautiful Rainbow, and on the other side
Were meadows rich and beautiful - lush and green and wide
And running through the meadows as far as the eye could see
Were animals of every sort as healthy as could be
My own tired, failing body was fresh and healed and new
And I wanted to go run with them, but I had something left to do
I needed to reach out to you, to tell you I'm alright
That this place is truly wonderful, then a bright glow pierced the night
"Twas the glow of many candles, shining bright and strong and bold
And I knew then that it held your love in it's brilliant shades of gold.
For although we may not be together in the way we used to be
We are still connected by a cord no one can see
So whenever you need to find me, we're never far apart
If you look beyond the Rainbow and listen with your heart

[Thank you, Snoopy. I'm a real softy when it comes to pets. As much happiness and love I gave her, for many, many years, she gave it all to me. What a babe she was.]

[Rob]

Dave, You must be so sad. Lucy will be with you in spirt always. Still, Those little bundles of fur steal our hearts, and you will miss the comfort of her presence. I know my little boy is a person in a cat's body. God Bless. Rob

[Thank you, Rob, and God Bless you, too. I like the way you put it - Lucy was a little girl in a cat's body. That's exactly what she was.]

[Joanna]

I'm sorry Dave. She did live a very long life. I'm sure your love & care contributed to that. God bless you Dave.

[Thank you, Joanna, and God Bless you! For a while, I sincerely believed she would outlive me and I worried about her. Towards the tail end, I had to sit down and figure out how old she really was. She was a picture of health until one day, when, suddenly, I could feel her bones. Overnight. I knew it was only a matter of time. Yes, she lived a very long time, and this was the only time she got sick. Ever. She was a happy kitty.]

[Mystical Pippin]

Dave

I opened your email and saw the words My Cat and I knew immediately - now I'm sitting here crying like a baby because I know so deeply just how you're feeling.

I'm so sorry you lost your baby. Pets are our children and we love them just as much as we love any human being.

I wish I had words that would comfort you. 19 years is an incredible amount of time to bond. I know so many little things will be missed. Try to take some comfort in knowing that she really is ok and some day you will see her again.

This hits home because Oct 10th marks the one year passing of my beloved Boo Radley (Boo Boo) He was 16 and the last of my brood. We had grown so close after losing Pippin his mother, two years before.

You're in my heart and prayers. I'm sending you a big hug and a healing reiki.

Take good care of you

[Awww, Mystical Pippin, I'm sorry My Cat story made you cry, but I certainly understand it.

I believe it was George Carlin who observed that human beings are remarkably funny when it comes to pets. You get one, it lives 15 years, it dies and you mourn. You get another one, it lives 15 years, it dies and you mourn. And we keep repeating it...

We live this cycle and, sadly, we never seem to want to adjust and accept it. Yes, they are like our children and we love them dearly. I wish they would live forever, but they never will. I sure am sorry about Pippin and Boo Boo, too. So many of us have "tails" to tell. One of these days, I'll have to tell you about Babette.

Thank you for keeping me in your heart and prayers, and for the big hug and a healing reiki. I'm doing my best to move on, but it's never easy.]

[Norma Gorman]

Sorry to hear about your cat Lucy! We lost our cat Lucy about a year ago. We also lost our Pomeranian Kk Christmas eve. They are part of the family and cherish all of the memories. My grand daughter Lexi ( don't know if you recall her) urged us to go out and get a new puppy. She went with us to all the breeders and finally picked out "petey". Yes she named him. Of course petey looks just like Kk but is a puppy. Lexi and our entire family now is building new memories with petey. Of course as I remind Lexi he will never replace Kk. I am so glad you had a lot of years with Lucy and hopefully a lifetime of memories. Norma

[Hello, Norma! I didn't know you had a cat named Lucy, too. I'm sorry you lost yours. At least, we have plenty of wonderful memories.

Of course I remember Lexi! I will never forget her, and I'd like to know more about how she's doing today. I will e-mail you, but I'm so glad you commented about Lucy. I'm happy for Lexi, too, with petey.

Yup, Lucy gave me many years of happiness, and I'm thankful for that. Thank you, Norma.]

[Cindy Edenfield]

My heart is with you. I have four cats and a german shepard (Fred). My oldest cat, Chloe, is 17 and I sure hate it when they go. My recommendation is to get another kitten as soon as possible.I promise you, it really does help you heal. Thanks again for everything that you do for all of us out here in the internet world. Cindy

[You have your paws full, Cindy! I don't think I want another pet yet. I want to do some traveling first, for one thing, and I just need a break. If anything, I'll get a cat from a shelter; not a kitten. I've always been a pet person, so who knows what will happen in the near future?

I hope Chloe is around for a few more years. There's just something special about a pet growing old with you, and the love that's there is incredible. Oh well... such is life.

Thank you, I really appreciate your words. That's very kind of you.]

[Michelle]

Oh Dave I am sorry to hear you and your family lost Lucy. I remember you said something not to long ago about her being frail and old. You should feel comforted by the fact she is no longer suffering, although I am sure it does not take away your pain.
If you are not up for adopting as others have suggested most shelters always need old blankets, food and volunteers. Believe me it will make your heart happy to help out the defenseless. Again I am very sorry for your family's loss.

[Thank you, Michelle. I knew, when she lost weight suddenly, that she was on her way out. I had the same thing happen in the past. Yesterday, I buried her in the bed I bought for her right after she started to lose weight, and, today, I threw out her litter box. If another pet comes along, we'll start anew. Right now, I'm just running in neutral, but I'll be picking up steam soon, I'm sure.]

[Patti O]

I'm so sorry to hear this about your cat and I feel your pain. I have a cat named Babie who is 17 and acts like a dog. Both the cat and my dog LOVE people. Someone comes over and neither one will leave them alone. Ginger (the dog) especially loves the Schwann's man. We've got the most hysterical video of her reaction when he leaves. I'm going to have my husband put it on U tube.

[I had a cat named Babette, Patti, and she acted more like a dog, too. She was a real sweetheart and she died just before she turned 14. With Lucy, I have to be thankful she had such good genes to live as long as she did.

Thanks for your comforting words, and when your husband puts the video up, please let me know. I'd love to see it! Surprisingly, Lucy did recognize the Jeopardy theme song, and she loved vanilla ice cream and pudding... even sugar-free!]

[Tommy's Mom]

My dear Dave
I'm so very sorry about Lucy and so glad she had such a good long life with you. I know how hard it is to lose a furry friend.

My Tommy is either 11 or 13 and I dread the day I have to put him to sleep. In 2005 I had to have friends take my Callie to the vet who said it was time. I just couln't have done it myself. I hope God gives me the strength to take Tommy myself when the time comes.

I think we will probably have furry friends in heaven.

Faith

[Yes, it's tough, but there's no other choice but to accept it. Hopefully, Tommy is still way too young to worry about it, and I do so dread the day for you. Just remember, when that day comes, I will be here for you, and I truly thank you for being here for me.

I believe animals have souls, but I have no idea what happens to them. Generally, dogs are bred to be fighters, so is it something that sends them to a dog-like hell when they die? I don't think so. Perhaps... our feline friends go to purr-gatory after cat-echism, but Lucy wasn't raised a Catholic. I didn't teach her that dogma.

Thank you, Tommy's Mom. See? You already raised my spirits.]

[Mary Jo]

Dave, so sorry to hear about Lucy. She lived a long life and knew how much you loved her.

[Thank you, Mary Jo. Yes, she did, and I take great comfort in knowing that. It helps a lot.]

[Amber from Maryland]

Hi Dave

I am so sorry about Lucy. There are no words that can say how terrible it is.

[Hi, Amber. Thank you. There are words that can be said, and you said them. It really helps, too.]

[nemerinys]

I am so sorry for your loss, Dave. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

[Thank you, nemerinys. Your sympathy is greatly appreciated, and every word from everyone does help.]

[New Puppy]

Tearful emotions are hard to avoid as we know we have lost one we love. Can be our pet or someone we hold close and value in our life. I cry for Lucy and you tonight Dave. You gave Lucy comfort and your best care possible. It was nice to have come to your blog and communicated with a man who shows how much he cares in so many ways and to so many. Just wanted to put a word in here for Lucy and you. Thanks, NP

[I will admit I cried on Sunday night, New Puppy, but now it's Tuesday and I'm feeling a bit better. We have to accept that our pets won't be with us as long as we'd like. Alas, what a shame, but such is life. I miss the little girl tremendously, and nothing will fill that void, but other than moving on, what can I do? Watching Jeopardy will never be the same.

Thanks for putting in those good words about me. You're right, I do care, and I will never forget my Lucy.]

[MArch37]

Loosing a pet is never easy and I too have known the loss of loosing pets to old age.
Take solace in the fact that you gave Lucy a good life. (((hugs)))Pat

[Thank you very much, MArch37. It's never something we want to face, but we must. There is no doubt in my mind that Lucy had a wonderful life, and that does comfort me.]

[Karen C.]

Oh, Dave! I haven't been over here in some time- terribly, terribly busy (Renn. Faire, other events, my parents moving down and legal issues regarding property, my sister, etc.)- just have not been able to keep up my end, so to speak, following this very important case- but I see this post and- Oh, I'm so deeply sorry about your beloved Lucy. We named the Mama cat who showed up at my work (and I felt compelled to take home) Lucie, completely by happenstance.

She thankfully now has a new home (yay!)- and I have the last of the kittens being given away going to a new family this afternoon. My son has bonded with one, so I guess we're keeping him. If any of these adoptions (Five! I'm patting myself on the back, yes-) doesn't work out I'll keep you in mind- I'm only partially joking....

[Great hearing from you, Karen. It's good to see all is well. I keep up with your sister when she has time to write.

Lucy was a loving cat for many years and she gave me great pleasure. It was depressing, to say the least, but she actually lived much longer than most cats, and for that, I am grateful.

I'm happy for you and your Lucie. What a great name! Right now, I'm about catted out. Losing her kind of drained me, but now I can travel a bit if I choose to. The last month or so I dedicated myself to her. I buried her outside my bedroom window. Alas, life goes on without her, but I will never, ever forget her. Thanks for your words of kindness.]